Reasons for being squelched needs major, MAJOR changes

Welll, if both of you two have each other iggyed the wtf is the problem. Jarel is very well spoken sexyy i think you may need a lawyer.

hey sexxy..... im sad hat you got banned again...just ignore wat they told about you and enjoy palying nod...^^ ....

Originally Posted by slowdive

Welll, if both of you two have each other iggyed the wtf is the problem.

That was exactly my point....

[Weirdgus]

People are allowed to say in private whatever the **** they want in my view,however spying what others talk about and then posting is not so cool and ,in my humble opinion ,the people that do that NEED TO GO **** THEMSELVES.

kk good luck

Originally Posted by Weirdgus

People are allowed to say in private whatever the **** they want in my view,however spying what others talk about and then posting is not so cool and ,in my humble opinion ,the people that do that NEED TO GO **** THEMSELVES.

kk good luck

*totally agrees with Gus*

[Weirdgus]

<3 Dev !!!

[zachofblades]

dang dev beat me to it...i agree with gus, and skinless told me this as well, you can say whatever you wish in pm....i think all of us should shut up and play nod

Gus is right, to a point, but also when I have good friends playing the same game and i get a pm from someone cussing out and degrading that friend i will not sit by and ignore it i would do exactly what was done sexyy has all rights to express herself about that message jarel had sent. and as for "spying", well wrong choice of word gus, it wasn't spying the proper word to use would be informing.

Jaseas, what you don't get is that I was not talking to a random person, but to someone I trusted and with which I hang out a lot in the game.
So let me get it straight: if a friend of yours would pm you about how much he dislikes another friend of yours, would you immediately betray the first's trust in favour of the second? And further on, if you were the person who received the screenshots, would you show them without hesitation on the forum instead of just ignoring the offender? If so, wooow, I'm impressed.
Personally, I would NEVER do any of the two.

actually jarel i do get it the person you PMed is a VERY good friend of sexyy and ammy prolly got offended, highly offended hearing you talk like that to her friend. put yourself in her place, wouldn't you get offended if i called someone you are very good friends with the things u said? if you are any kind of decent human being then yes the answer would be you would get offended. Its not that fact you portrayed your dislikes towards that person its the vulgar language you used against her that was offensive.

and at one time i did find you a very decent guy whom was very nice, but the ugliness in your actions and words changed all that.

[ferrec]

Originally Posted by Jaseas

its the vulgar language you used against her that was offensive.

I find it difficult to drum up sympathy about Sexyy's sensitivity to vulgar language, when she continues to make incredibly racist comments after being asked (politely, I might add) to stop.

Vulgar is, as vulgar does.

i never stated sexyy got offended i said ammy got offended, "wouldn't you get offended if i called someone you are very good friends with the things u said?"

I am sorry I don't mean to be cryptic with my posts

You see Jaseas, the fact that you just disclosed the identity of the third person involved shows even better how totally different our points of view can be, this is something I would have never done, it's called respect.
Since you brought it in the conversation, let me just tell you that ammy actually apologised to me for disclosing our private conversation, this should tell you something about the whole thing.

And as far as I'm concerned, I still find you a decent person Jaseas, I don't judge other persons by the actions of their friends.

[ferrec]

Point taken. Vuglar behaivor by any party lowers the level of discourse game wide.

And yes, I would be angry, and have been were a friend insulted. What I would not do, is take it to a public arena such as this, and be surprised when all of Nod did not side with me.

Let's all just play nod, and stop flogging the dead horse.

[zachofblades]

wow guys... its the past, put it behind you, arguing isnt going to help this out at all, i wasnt there when this happened so i got nothing to say, just shut your little mouths about this and play nod.

actually zach i am playing nod im currently fighting as im typing this, all i am trying to do is get a better understanding of what happend and if it can be rectified by the persons involved. and jeral I am offended also for the things that were said, and I say again unless the person u pmed wasn't offended then your message would have never showed up here. apparently she has forgiven you for it but others have not. If what you say is true and you do have respect then i expect you do the right thing and appologize for your actions.

[zachofblades]

i'm playing at same as typing too jase...perhaps i better rephrase, make shorter sentences or somethin... shut. up. about. this. squelch. subject. speak. less. play. more...

ohh zach practice what u preach man, go back to playin nod.